The Deadliest Weapon On Your Body…
- Cream In My Coffee
- Jun 25, 2023
- 2 min read
The tongue is the most powerful part of the human body. It holds are sense of taste and can even keep your lover entertained. It’s also the most dangerous weapon. Everyone loses their temper at one point or another, saying harsh and hurtful words. However, hurtful words can have a negative impact on your relationship and even affect intimacy. Remember, A sword can cut the body but a tongue can wound the soul.
"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” But is this true? There has been a lot of research into the power of words. And the answer to that is, "NO."
When you say hurtful words to your partner, it begins to weaken the foundation of your relationship. You’re basically damaging your bond with verbal attacks. Saying mean things in a relationship can slowly drive you and your partner away from each other. Loss of interest in the relationship can be a common side-effect when you’re constantly disrespecting your significant other or being disrespected in a relationship.
Replace distasteful words with words of affirmation. By using words of affirmation in your relationship, you are strengthening communication, between you and your partner. You are showing your partner that you notice and appreciate them. When your partner feels appreciated, they are likely to experience a deeper satisfaction with themselves and with the relationship.
When using words of affirmation…
-Be authentic
-Be empathetic
-Show your appreciation
-Say “I love you a lot”
-Write them letters
-Point out their strengths
-Make words of affirmation a habit
Try taking these next steps to strengthen your relationship...
Be Friends. Any healthy relationship must be based on a solid underlying friendship.
Stay Connected. Couples need to spend a lot of time with each other.
Get Physical. Intimacy is so important in your relationship. It is the bond that seals two people together. Not just bodies, but hearts and souls as well.
Celebrate Each Other. Give recognition and acknowledge your significant others accomplishments and achievements. Also, acknowledge, milestones, and accomplishments you have over come as a couple.
Listen Carefully. Make sure your partner is heard. Sometimes, it is easier to speak than it is to listen. Take the time to acknowledge your significant others feelings. It is important that you show empathy.
The next time you are tempted to deal a low blow to your partner, remember, they may forgive you but they won’t forget it. Too many of these instances can make your relationship an emotionally abusive one.
The deadliest weapon on your body is your tongue. Be careful how you use it. It's sharper than a sword...
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